

Why it feels so good: “One thing the Fifty Shades of Grey reader doesn’t really get is a positive look at a woman on top,” she says. This could also be modified to involve woman-on-top intercourse but with the bottom cuffed,” Queen says. ‘Queening’ is also known as ‘sitting on his face,’ so this is an oral sex position where the woman gets lovely licks while the man’s wrists are bound above his head she just has to take care not to put her weight on his arms when settling in to be pleasured. How you do it: “For this position, the submissive partner is on the bottom. The ‘top’ gets the delicious feeling of power and that the ‘bottom’ is there for the taking - quite literally.”

If someone likes bondage, the immobility and ravishment are generally part of its delight. “This allows those elements to remain very important and adds a touch of power play: Hands over head and bound exposes the breasts and gives her more of a feeling of being ravished. Why it feels so good: “Anyone who already loves missionary position loves it because of the full-body contact and face-to-face intimacy,” she says. The dominant person is on top, probably talking dirty.” “You can up the ante with a second pair of cuffs on the ankles if the bed has legs to loop the cuff’s chain or a length of rope to. How you do it: “The person on the receiving end lies on her back, hands overhead and cuffed,” says Carol Queen, Ph.D., staff sexologist at Good Vibrations.
